Unwillingness to Accept

Every one has different journey, different destination, different purpose in life. But in crossways we met with so many people of diametric and alike interest. Some promise you to hold you till the terminus but leave you in the midst of route. Some pick you up from there and travel with you through the detours. That is life. We often seek to portray our inner self as a unique individual among others with no greed, selfless behaviour, truth seeking, hunger to learn and be faithful. But still people accused you of carrying wrong character and misdoing human being. At some point of time you try to figure out how to live your life and attempting to do so, we lost the self we always want to be. It’s impossible to live the way we are supposed to be lived as human; spreading happiness, squeezing pains and sorrows, sharing love and joy, searching peace of mind, speeding up towards success; sailing to eternity. These should be the meaning of life. Meanwhile while staring doing as the way to be done, people start to judge you now. Not because you are denying to express yourself but because you are lacking self love and self acceptance. In order to feel better, they wear an invisible mask of strengthness and end of being strangeness. But I think life has a tendency to provide a person with what they need in order to grow. Our beliefs, what we value in life, provide the roadmap for the type of life that we experience. James Allen said,”People are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves; they therefore remain bound.” Human nature are characterised by reason and tolerance. But they covered themselves in the maze of excuses. Then, they search 100 excuses to become reluctant which signify the truth within their minds. Being grumpy, nasty, bad tempered, shifty and rigid are some obsolete corresponding character that are developed within when you deny the facts and kept unexpressed. On the other hand, the hard thing is to understand them when they want to be narrated by someone else. You can not help someone who does not want to help themselves. Say it if you mean it. Self expression will help you free your mind and enjoy life. Accept your feelings and express it. Don’t wait for someone to understand you. Express your feelings. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret. Sometimes we need to stop and tell the tenderhearted persons whom we care about that we love them and explain that our awkward strangeness is not a rejection of them. Each one of us has a comfort zone. The problem comes when we are unwilling to leave it.

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